Megan is a 40-something government employee in the Washington, DC area. She got interested in Personal Finance when she got out of college and realized that her paycheck wasn’t going to go as far as she had hoped. Since starting this blog, she has managed to buy a house and make a solid start on her retirement goals, and hopes to help others do the same. Here is her story:
In 2007, I was a gainfully employed 20-something with no debt but not a lot of knowledge about personal finance. It was a co-worker’s comment about Roth IRAs that sent me to the internet, searching for information. It was then that I realized that I really didn’t know a whole lot about personal finance and that my current financial situation was due a lot to inherent frugal tendencies, generous family members, a fear of debt, and good luck. While that was working for me, clearly I needed a better plan.
While I had no debt, I was also pretty much living paycheck to paycheck and not worrying about going over budget (I say this as if I had a real budget) because I had an emergency fund set aside to cover any overages.
Except that’s not what an emergency fund is for.
So I did a lot of research, read a lot of blogs, and decided that I needed a plan. I needed to budget. I needed to know what I was spending my money on. I needed to prepare for the future.
I decided to create a blog not only to make myself accountable to others but also to share the knowledge that I gained along the way. I’ve learned so much from my fellow bloggers, and I hope that my readers can find something useful in what I have to share as well.
Well said.
It’s why I want to be Anon, IRL… (plus apparently I’m controversial) but I don’t mind posting everything online as a general “here’s what I did”
I like the point about how you wouldn’t notice her latte factor if she didn’t complain about her cards — I find that whining draws attention to you, either pity or disgust. Neither is positive.
I think since those people complain about their situation, they open themselves up for criticism. It’s gets unbelieveably annoying when people are constantly b*tching about money while they sit there drinking a $5 latte. You don’t want to hear about it, I don’t want to hear about it, so let’s do something about it.
We all do it though. I have a budget, an EF, etc. but I almost bought more house than I needed (by almost I mean lusting over it). I could afford it, but money would have been very tight. My wife likes to remind me about that everyday, especially when I complain that we went over our budget in one of our categories.
I think everyone needs a reality check, but some more than others.
Wow that was long :).
Great post. Salary transparency is one of the strangest things about working for the government, and it’s one of those things that makes you a “public servant.”
I’m collecting stories on life in government service at FatCratz.com, and would love to hear more folks weigh in on what this is like.
Nicely played my friend! We all sure do judge whether we mean to or not, but no sense in giving everyone firepower by handing out your dirty details all over the place 😉
I just told some of my family this weekend, and so far so good! it’s the friends/co-workers that i’ll be steering clear from…
Wow, this is a very relatable post. I really think this world is becoming more and more materialistic. With an economic slump like this, you’d think the opposite should be happening, but no… People still judge others because of financial problems regardless of the situation. That just sucks. And yeah, an occasional cup of coffee isn’t that bad, just don’t allow it to slowly wreck your finances. Good luck 🙂
I agree.
I’m seen in my office brown-bagging it, but then when I bought a nice car, I got ribbed for it, as though it was out of character. What’s wrong with picking and choosing? The money I save by brewing coffee at home helping to fund something that’s fun?
I’d only open myself to more of that by coming out of the closet, blogwise.
Nice site.
Joe
Such an interesting topic! My blog isn’t anonymous. My friends and family all know about it and some read it. I haven’t shared it at work, though. For some reason, I’m just not comfortable with that. I don’t state exactly how much money I make, but I do share quite a bit. This does open me up to possible judgments, etc. but I just don’t care. I never claimed to be doing everything “the right way”. It’s just my way.
I learned several years ago to keep quite about my finances. People now don’t know how much I am paid, don’t know where I put my money, and don’t know my financial opinions unless I am asked to share. Even then I may not share. I only know of one other friend that is truly a full on saver like myself, and he and I talk pretty openly, otherwise my blog is where I share with the world, anonymously of course. Am I seriously annoyed by friends, family, and other people’s decisions, heck ya, but they won’t hear it from me unless asked.
Nice post…
I completely agree. To each his own. I find financial bloggers especially critical of others. My thought? Save where it doesn’t hurt so you can spend where you want to. And – if I wish to spend my hard earned bucks on a Latte so be it. I just managed to save 75.00 in coupons on my 150.00 grocery trip therefore I can now afford my Latte.
In my experience, those who complain are really asking to be told that it’s okay for them to spend indiscriminitely or asking to be forgiven for their excesses. Complaining is very different from worrying aloud…which is rarely spoken in work circles.